Take Control of Your Life




Each of us has been called to life to create and contribute to the world. Each of us was born with a purpose that attracts to us the people, places, events and opportunities for the fulfillment of our destiny. How much energy do you lose on a daily basis by worrying about things over which you have absolutely no control? Just image if you turned that worry into power. The power to be fearless in life. The power to erase anxiety and fear. Just imagine what you could accomplish if you turned that worry into courage and power.

Happiness is something that everybody interprets in a different way. Some people consider themselves happy when their relationships work; others see happiness just in giving to others. Happiness is a choice. It is the way we choose to think about ourselves, where we are in this world, and the world around us, and how we act in that world, that differentiates the happy people from the less happy people. If you judge your situation as bad for you, that’s unhappiness. If you judge a situation as good for you, that’s happiness. People use different terms to describe what feels good for them. For someone it might be excitement, passion, exhilaration, fulfillment, freedom, feeling fully alive with inspiration and joy. For another it might be more peaceful, content, capable, hopeful, satisfied, and comfortable feeling. Whatever you call it, all that counts is that it feels good to you.

Each of us has the freedom to live as we choose. When we make a choice it is backed by all of the will, purpose, and the law in the universe. Since there are no limits to this universal law there are no limits to our lives. We all have the potential to create a great life for ourselves.


Change your thinking, change your life—it really works. The great irony is that if we think we are powerless, and then you are. Know right now that you have a divine center that is ready, willing, and able to join with you to bring forth a wonder-filled life now and forevermore. Only YOU can change the state of your mind and belief system. The only thing you really need to do is erase all negative thoughts, feelings and uncomfortable emotions from your mind. You must begin to change your subconscious mind. That means to let it go. Let the past go. What is left is happiness. It takes a lot of practice and patience to master this task. Just think about it as reprogramming your computer and putting in new software. Throw all your old “files” out, put new ones in, reboot and you’re done. Well, almost. In the beginning you will most likely have difficulties working with this “new program” because you are not used to it. As time goes on, you can make positive changes.

Make a plan and motivate yourself every day. When you wake up in the morning say, “I will make the best out of this day and won’t waste time on negative thoughts.” At night, when you go to bed, ask yourself whether you have really utilized this day. Did you stick to your initial plan? Have you achieved everything you wanted to? If all answers are yes, celebrate the day and rejoice. If something did not go the way you wanted, find out why and learn from it. That way you can gradually achieve your goal and strengthen your mind. It is important that you train yourself. Through constant training you will be able to transform yourself and achieve happiness from within.


The word “create” comes from the Latin word creatus, “To cause to grow, to bring forth or produce.” When we combine our ability to create with clear thinking and a vision for our life, we are on a path to true spiritual enlightenment. When you ask people what they want most out life, nearly everyone will say that they just want to be happy. The bottom line of a great life is to manifest your hearts intention. You need to wear it on your sleeve like a designer handbag. We need to also realize our full potential and how to make full use of our capacities. That doesn’t mean that you can’t be happy unless you make millions or are the president of a company. You will only find satisfaction if you feel from within. Pay attention to the quality of your inner experience. Take a few minutes out of your busy day, sit down and take a look from within. If you are always on the go you don’t have enough space to create a happy life.


Many of our choices are driven by the demands of time and space, our physical requirements, and so forth. But underneath all that is something that from time to time comes above ground; specifically, it’s our connectedness to the self we have always been, and a remembering of the time-less path we are committed to, that’s behind all that has transpired.

When we make a momentary choice congruent to our soul’s intention, a strange feeling of rightness occurs. When a choice is made that diverts us, we get a strange feeling. The soul’s intention itself evolves over time. We exist and create on many levels.. Ask yourself questions like: Do the things that I am doing give me joy? Does my inner voice tell me I should be doing something different? Is everything I do meaningful to me? Do my intuitive feelings tell me that I should maybe change my life? Get a new job? Get out of my relationship? The key is to really listen to our hearts and minds, our emotions and feelings.

Only spend time with those who make you feel good about yourself and your life. It is also important to put things into perspective. Ask yourself whether the problem you are experiencing will matter a year from now or next week or in an hour. Think positive! Boost your outlook!  It’s hardly surprising that people with rosy outlooks — people who expect things to turn out well — report themselves happier and less prone to psychological distress. While each of us is born with a tendency toward optimism — or pessimism — you can teach yourself to shift your attitude to manifest your dreams!

As Goethe once said, “Whatever you can do, or dream you can, begin it! Boldness has genius, magic and power in it.”


In order to keep your life the best you can, you need to maintain it like a garden with beautiful flowers. It is constant work. Just because you have a nice looking garden, doesn’t mean you can stop working on it.  It takes skills to keep it flourishing. You will also be able to enjoy it more if you share it with friends or your family. You need to share your joy with others. Spending meaningful time with friends, family or romantic partners will help to enhance your best life. It is important to have people around us whom we care about and who care about us. Share your excitements, your adventures, and your daily activities with a person you love. It will give your life new meaning.


The law of attraction demonstrates that we attract to ourselves the experiences that directly correlate with our thoughts. When we focus on what we fear, we attract the very things we fear. When we think about what we don’t want, we attract into our lives the things or experiences we don’t want. When we are living in lack and limitation consciousness, we tend to dwell on what isn’t rather that knowing what our truth is. When we notice that our thoughts are drifting into the old beliefs of fear, lack, and limitation, we have the choice to practice our mental power and bring our thoughts back to a healthy and positive place. The challenge is to be able to hold our thoughts clearly, positively and consistently on what we really want. If you believe something so strong, you will eventually receive it.


If we trust our higher consciousness we can create on the inner plane and tap into unlimited energy. All that is needed is to focus on what we desire and it will manifest as fast as our thought. Once we have created the energy form of our manifestation, we just need to draw it into our energy field and it will magnetically attract the physical situation that we desire in our lives. The match is as good as the idea we created in our inner world. And once the vibration and energy pattern of what we are choosing to create become a part of our daily energy field, it will begin to transmit the frequency pattern of what we are manifesting on the physical plane, attracting it to us and naturally manifesting it into being. Like an energy transmitter, we will be radiating that vibration outward, attracting the desire and outcome into our lives.

I invite you to choose to generate vibrations of joy, peace and love, and generously share these vibrations with others. By elevating your own vibration power you uplift the energy of joy, peace and love for the whole world.


~Gary Quinn


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